Navigating Grief and Family Expectations: A Heartfelt Letter to Abby
DEAR ABBY: I am a widow with two children, but I lost my son to COVID in 2021. My daughter wants me to join her for a cruise next year, but I feel uncomfortable being in large crowds and around unfamiliar people. The experience of losing my son and the current situation with masking has made me especially cautious.
I told my daughter I wouldn’t go on the cruise, and it hurt her feelings. Now I’m feeling guilty. I’m up to date on all my vaccinations, including the flu shot, and I maintain my health. However, my doctor has advised me to be careful at my age. Should I feel guilty for prioritizing my health? — CAUTIOUS IN CALIFORNIA
DEAR CAUTIOUS: Your concerns are completely understandable given your experience with COVID and the advice from your doctor. You didn’t mention the cruise ship’s size, which could add to your discomfort if it accommodates thousands of passengers.
While staying vaccinated is wise, it doesn’t fully protect against all communicable diseases. Let your daughter know you’d love to vacation with her under different circumstances, but your health must come first. Don’t feel guilty about taking care of yourself.
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